THIS IS WHO I AM AND I've learned; that you cannot make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to them. I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back. I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it. I've learned that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts. I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do. I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be. I've learned that you can keep going long after you can't. I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you. I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time. I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you are to learn to forgive yourself. I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief. I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. I've learned that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon…